Sunday, July 27, 2008

A Typical Week


In looking back over our doings of the week, it hit me this afternoon just how filled our lives are with wonderful outings, explorations, discoveries and plain old fun. As I list in my mind what we did or the experiences we had, it seems incredibly busy, but this is a typical week for us and there's actually a lot of "ease" built into our lives since we don't have to be at a particular place (school, the office, etc) at a specific time every day. Most days we wake up without alarm clocks. We prioritize and choose what we are going to do, accomplish or explore each and every day, and each and every day it can be different. Granted, Paul and I have to get our work done for MoonDance and After Hours, but we seem to still manage to keep a good bit of flexibility and fun in our lives.

Just a brief summary of some doin's around here:

Monday: Paul takes Emily and Bethany (Em's best friend) for a cabin field trip to the Eno River. Despite the rain, the field trip is a go, albeit with a smaller contingency of attendees. They get to explore the waters of the Eno River with the help of one of the park rangers and come home wet and happy talking of kick nets, watery creatures, snails and more.

That afternoon we are visited by a family friend, Brittany, who may be relocating to Raleigh. The girls got to admire Brittany's employment portfolio, and admire it they did! Britt is a professional baker and her portfolio consists of page after page of amazing decorative cakes and confections.

Britt wasn't able to escape fast enough though and was roped into the hideaway for some book reading. (Those are temporary tattoos on Em's face.) The evening is capped off with a sleepover for Em and Bethany. A much looked forward to event!

Tuesday: The girls start their day with an adventure. They don backpacks, throw in some snacks and water, grab their compass, and head out the front door to explore the neighborhood. They only make it as far as the corner (they're not allowed to leave our dead end street), but you'd never know it based on their excitement level. After that, we head to cabin for a day of fun and play with our Dream & Discover pals.


Wednesday: A trip to Marbles Kids Museum in downtown Raleigh with 2 other cabin families. Marbles is a hands on interactive kids museum. This month they had a traveling Olympics Exhibit where the kids could try their hands at various sports (ice hockey anyone?) and learn a bit more about the Olympics. Emily and pals spent a good bit of time building structures with over-sized Legos; donning kimonos, getas and obis in the 2-B-Me Gallery while learning a bit about Japanese culture; oohing and aahing at the feeding of the shark in the Splash Zone; and playing chess on the giant floor sized game board. Emily and I were the last to leave and were sad to close down the museum right in the middle of an involved game of running a restaurant and hotel in the Around Town! exhibit.

Thursday: A work day with lots of visitors coming and going in our home and in the shop followed by a lovely outing to the American Tobacco District.

Friday: Today we caught a play at the Raleigh Little Theatre with 5 other cabin families. Ozma of Oz was presented courtesy of the theater's Teens on Stage program. The RLT is one of our favorite venues for plays. It's small and intimate, so much so that they warn the audience in the front row to keep their feet tucked under their chairs during the performance. You really feel like you are part of the action, and that's a wonderful way to introduce theater to children. This particular play was not one of my favorites as it seemed that every single scene was one of contention and strife. Lots of yelling and arguing and bickering between the characters in addition to the occasional brawl. That can be a bit overwhelming for younger children, especially when you're seated just a few feet away from all the commotion.

We still enjoyed the outing though and spent some time afterwards exploring the fabulous rose garden behind the theater. This particular rose garden is one of three accredited gardens in the Carolinas and is the display garden for all new roses presented by the All American Rose Society. There are dozens of glorious rose beds perfuming the air with their heady scent, a small fountain/pond, and shady bowers, grottoes and pathways to explore.
We finished off the afternoon with a hop over to Locopops, Emily's absolute favorite popsicle palace in all the world and an ever popular hangout for our D&D crew. You can't eat just one!

A Week Of Discoveries

Maddie's been in rare form these last ten days. You look at her and can just about see the smoke seeping out her ears as her little mind is working furiously behind the scenes making sense of it all. For the past week or two, she's been reaching out and trying to grasp things. Stuffed toys, rattles, the cat's tail, human noses, and worst of all, the hair of the unsuspecting passer by. She's got a death grip that rivals belief!

Just three short days ago, Maddie made the discovery of her life....feet!!! These fabulous toys are located just below her belly button, they're soft and chewy, they seem to have a life of their own and best of all, they're with her wherever she goes! What more could you ask for in the perfect toy?? Well, perhaps we could paint her lovely little toenails a rainbow of colors to make them even more eye catching. Hmmmm... how about we draw some faces (eyes, mouth, etc) on the tops of her feet....That should take her newfound toy to a whole other level.

Last of all, the gift of voice has visited our dear sweet child and left her with a yell that can make the cat run for cover. Its volume and strength even startles Maddie at times! Each morning Maddie-Lu supervises my kitchen chores from her bouncy seat all the while shouting out instructions on how to load the dish washer, how many coffee beans to pour into the grinder, pointing out the crumbs I missed while wiping down the counter, telling me to fo faster..... Geez... it just goes on and on and on!



It's a real good thing she's so darn cute!

Friday, July 25, 2008

A Night Out

Last night, after an incredibly hectic day where it seemed like our home and businesses were sporting a revolving door, Paul and Em talked me into dining al fresco at the American Tobacco District in downtown Durham. An absolutely delicious Philosopher's Pizza Pie from The Mellow Mushroom and a couple of drafts were the perfect ending to a long day.


Located just across the street from the Durham Bulls Ball Park, the district is a great destination to share with out of town guests as it has quite the unique feel to it and is a lovely place to stroll and visit.


This is one of Emily's favorite venues for an evening out. She loves telling the story of how she "discovered" this place one afternoon when we were driving around Durham. Emily asked if we could drive on into a particular parking deck and with no other immediate obligations in front of us, we indulged her request. Lo and behold when we all climbed out of the car to do a bit of exploration, our ears picked up the sound of running water - lots of it. Following Em's lead, we soon discovered the American Tobacco District. The renovation of this historic area has preserved the look and feel of the original factory buildings, while adding spectacular modern accents such as the man-made Old Bull River, which runs through the middle of the District. In just a couple of city blocks, the "district" offers restaurants, outdoor concerts, a greenspace (where Em loves to do somersaults and cartwheels), a YMCA and art exhibits as well as many business offices.
All of the photos in this blog entry (except the one of Em shown above) were taken by our budding photographer, Miss Em.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Maddie-Lu at 3 Months of Age

Happy birthday, Maddie-Lu! We so love any excuse to celebrate you!

Maddie looking extremely erudite and learned surrounded by her various stuffed vassals.



Maddie-Lu and her good friend, Bria, celebrating Maddie's month-a-versary at cabin. Bria's mom, Lauren, was one of my doula's at Maddie's birth. Bria calls Maddie-Lu "the perfect baby". She has adored Maddie since birth and the fascination continues.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Boogie Board Girl

When asked what she wants to be when she grows up, of late Em has been answering as follows:
  • Professional Surfer
  • Ballet Dancer
  • Scientist
  • LocoPops Employee (local gourmet popsicle store)
  • Cat Trainer
Granted, her choices change from day to day, but we really like that along with the answer "Professional Surfer", Emily also adds in that she's going to live on the island of Hawaii in a big house and that dad and I are welcome to join her there......BINGO!!!! So, to support our daughter as she explores her various career paths, we got her a boogie board (naturally).

Em was incredibly disappointed that on the day said boogie board came home with her, the weather was ominous indeed and the skies were criss crossed with lightning bolts. Ah, the christening would have to wait. Not to be dissuaded from her craft, Em plunked her boogie board down in the tumultuous waters of the bath tub and proceeded with her first surfing lesson.

After much towel blotting, good old dad decided it was time to take his daughter "TO THE BEACH!!" Forget the weather forecasts of dire storms. That would just make for better surfing! So Paul and Em drove 2+ hours to Wilmington to dip their toes in the Atlantic and launch Em's majestic boogie board on its first real voyage.


Proud Mom and Dad are already pricing tickets to Hawaii.....

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Pig Nose


Oh come on, you know you needed a laugh today!!! I believe this may have been inspired by the character "Hog Squeal" from The Spiderwick Chronicles.

Friday, July 4, 2008

CABIN LOVE

Just a brief update today, folks. Emily, Maddie-Lu and I had a magical day at our Dream & Discover cabin earlier this week. So many fabulous moments. The weather was probably the biggest contributor to the low stress, easy going, creative atmosphere of the day. With temps in the low 80's, crystal clear blue skies and low humidity, we were able to be outside for the vast majority of the day. The children began a very elaborate pirate fantasy game involving treasure (of course), hidden caves, daring battles at sea, heart thumping action, narrow escapes and ultimate victory for the "good guys". Em put herself in charge of fashioning pirate hats for all. A new skill that she had mastered quite proficiently in the previous 48 hours (as the 70+ paper hats decorating every room of our house can attest).



One of the things I love most about the cabin is how the children move in and out of play groups so seamlessly. One moment, girls and boys separate themselves into different groups based on gender, the next moment, some of the children have paired off for one on one play or quiet reading. A half hour later, the "bigs" (ages 5-7) have started a game of baseball (for boys and girls). Turn around again and all the children have come together across all ages and genders for sandbox construction projects or a ride on the see saw. Most times the "bigs" are incredibly tolerant and inclusive of the "littles" (4 and under). Even the intricate fantasy play games almost always have room for the littles in supporting roles.


The cabin has brought so much joy into our lives. We celebrated Dream & Discover's second birthday last month. In reflecting upon all that the cabin is to our family, I thought I'd share the D&D "song". Created by the Winslow-Trevathan family, the song made its debut at a D&D multi-family camping trip to Hanging Rock State Park in April 2007. Many of the children know the words by heart. The cabin is so much to so many (we now have 11 families participating) that I don't think any single song could capture it all, but these words can give some idea of the gift that the cabin is for our children:

For Music and Laughter come follow us down
For Painting and Chasing come follow us down
To a Magic Cabin on the outskirts of town
Follow the Dancing Stream down… To

Dream, Dream and Discover
A playground for Learners and Lovers
Come Discover your Dreams
For Life is as Grand as it seems!

Where children decide what they’re going to do
And Nursing and Mudplay are part of it too
Where there’s no such thing as “Too Much Glue”
Follow the Dancing Stream down… To

Dream, Dream and Discover
A playground for Learners and Lovers
Come Discover your Dreams
For Life is as Grand as it seems!

We Trust in our Young Ones and Nurture their Souls
We Honor their Feelings and see them as Whole
Knowing is a Journey and not just a goal
Follow the Dancing Stream down… To

Dream, Dream and Discover
A playground for Learners and Lovers
Come Discover your Dreams
For Life is as Grand as it seems!